Ugandan woman Amira Mitra has responded to online trolls mocking her marriage.
In a lengthy post on her Facebook page, Amira addressed the criticisms, clarifying that she has never hidden her husband. She shared that her friends have met both her husband and his family, urging people to stop calling their relationship fake.
Amira explained that when choosing a partner, she looked for qualities beyond appearance and found them in her husband, which is why she chose him. She added that she wouldn’t marry someone just for being tall, emphasizing that she is sapiosexual, attracted to intelligence.
She ended by asking people to focus on their own families, bills, children, and jobs instead of worrying about her relationship.
She wrote: ” I never hid my husband!My husband is in the Country every two to three months!The only challenge is that the places we go to while he is in the Country are places that most of you fear going to😆So how could you have seen him!Anyway, stop calling my friends fake, my friends didn’t take any video, that video came from a relative…. you know how relatives be!! All my friends have met my husband several times, we’ve had dinners, parties, gatherings name it… with all of them and taking a video of my husband and I should be the last thing you should expect from any of them!But some of my relatives oba thought that a mere video would make me run mad😆, or maybe get a stroke, high blood pressure or whatever their plan was! It’s always the people above 40 years engaging in small fights with those below them!How about use that energy to better your lives!One thing about life is that we all aren’t perfect… we all have flaws, you might be tall nga tolina magezi atte nga nobwavu bwakulemerako sinakindi nga owunya akamwa oba nga ogwa ensiimbu, you might be intelligent naye nga toyima oba nga ofuuwa fuuwa, oluusi nomeketa amanyo, sinakindi nga olina ekirwadde ekikutawanya, you might be beautiful but having kids from multiple baby daddies, buli akwagala nga ayavuwala oluusi naafa, oba nga gwe ofuka kubuliri… you might be hardworking naye nga gwe ssente zikuyita mungalo, oba buli lwozifuna olwaza, oba buli lwozifuna nga omulimu gugwawo….etcEveryone is going through something in life!!But one thing I can never blame anyone for is what God put on them…. God alone reserved the answers to some questions in life..He knows why he creates us blind, deaf, autistic, dwarf, lame, with down syndrome, mentally ill, dumb etc….Secondly, when people are choosing partners, they consider so many qualities not just one…. I might have written 10 qualities and got 9 from this one person but the other one shouldn’t hinder our relationship…. I am not going to marry a daft man because he is tall, I am sapiosexual!I was raised by parents who taught me well, taught me kindness and compassion from an early age and also taught me the ways of the Lord, so don’t expect me to mock anyone nor despise them for how God chose to create them…. Lastly but not least, who among us was ordained by God to identify who should be considered beautiful or ugly!!Who among us knows what life has in store for them….raise your hand up and tell us that you knew the life you would live, the family you would be born in, the partner you would marry, the car you would drive, the house you would buy, the children you would give birth to and the day you will/would die!!You are all parents and future parents, sow your seed now and prepare for the harvest!! Even the best farmers always worry about what they would reap!!My husband and I are fine, don’t worry about us, worry about your lives, families, children, bills, jobs, name it…..And to whoever called my husband and I names, we forgive you, the rest is between you and your creator!Love and light from Us🫂😘🧡💛💚❤️💜🩵🥰
Source: Elizabeth blog